What u see is not really what you get

To some degree, people always wear a kind of mask in different situations. I didn't mean that people do not act in the way corresponding to what they think(言行不一), but rather meant that most of time people will behave themselves in some way to be accepted in some occasions.

In this case, he or she who treats others well not really be concluded he or she is a "good" guy. We can only explain that the one's behavior happens to be consistent with your thoughts.

If you aren't aware of the tricky essence of human beings, you will be seen as an idiot somehow. Pardon for the harsh wording I'm using. But I'm a bit angry about something happened to me recently. I don't want to describe too much here. But I did want to yell at someone HOW DARE YOU SAY WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT? HOW DARE YOU CONCLUDE WHAT KIND OF PERSON I AM IN A FUCKING SNOOPY WAY? HOW DARE YOU THINK SOMEONE IS SUITABLE FOR ME FROM THE ANGLE OF CAPITALS WE HAVE? YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW THE BACKGROUND I GREW UP!

You just think i'm a well-behaved guy. But it definately doesn't represent you know who I am or you have the right to compare another guy with me on a pair of scales!

I, really hate people judge things in a "what i think is right" way. You know what? Everyone is different. You can't control anyone very well even they are your sons or daughters.

In fact, this kind of person is rare in my intimate network. I think some elements still affect who will be our friends. At least, most of my friends believe not all the thieves are bad guys.

Stop being foolish, what you see is not really what you get.